没想到再次提笔写博客是在7个月后的San Diego的一个叫Travelodge的小旅馆里。
昨天晚上在电脑上看Tom Hanks和Meg Ryan的《You've Got Mail》，一部从98年上映时就想去看到片子。
看到Kathleen和男友在电影院起争执，然后在咖啡馆分手一幕的时候，突然心有戚戚焉。两个人在一起其实未必就是相爱的。彼此不相爱的人在一起总是苦恼多，争执多。与其不开心，还不如分开。但是你又怎么知道自己是否爱着对方呢?
最困难的不是分手，而是确定自己是否爱对方。
2005 New Year’s Eve, Tromso, Norway.
It was the first time that I had ever seen the Aurora Borealis, the Northern Lights. Flickering curtains of dancing light against the dark sky, the beautiful blaze of pale green celestial lights is just like our tumultuous life. We seldom have a clue where life is leading us to, nor do we know the showtime of our life journey’s finale. The present is the only gift we can hold tight. If you can choose to be happy, don’t choose to be sad. Regardless of the problems swirling around you, move through life with grace, warmth, and vigor. Most importantly, stay emotionally elevated.
Feel the living, feel the happiness, and that’s right the meaning of life.
我们唯一能牢牢握在手里的就是此刻；如果你能选择高兴，就一定不要选择悲伤。如我这样的悲观者才能真正快乐地活着。
感受生活，感受 幸福。这就是生的意义。