Accept your will power.
A lot of people say, "I don't have any will power." But if you think you have no will power, you are undermining your own success. Everyone has a will power. The first step in developing your will power is to accept its existence. The second step is to know that your will power, like the muscles in your arm is yours to develop. You are in charge of making it strong or letting it become weak. Will power is not strengthened by random external circumstances. Will power is an inside game. Make a promise to yourself, to be clear and truthful about your own will power. It's always there.
Say "No" to yourself.
A lot of people are afraid of the word "discipline". But the rule of the word "discipline" is the word "disciple". When you are disciplined, you've simply decided to manage the will to become your own disciple. Once you've made that decision, your life of adventure gets more interesting. You start to see yourself as a stronger person. You gain self-respect. Psychologist Abraham J. Heschel said, "Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself." Emerson said that when we say no to temptation, the power of that temptation passes to our will power. And Willam James recommended that we do at least two things everyday that we don't wanna do. By doing this, we stay powerfully aware of our own will power.
Abraham Lincoln said it best, " I will prepare myself, and my time will come." The more self disciplined you become, the "luckier" you will get! Learn to make yourself do what others won't, and you will soon have what others don't! Just like in your business, It's the start that stops most people, don't let the start, stop you, get started right now! We don't need to learn anything else, we just need to practice what we already know! I know I will start working on being more disciplined, I know I'll see myself over the top-because I rock!
It is good to take action, It is far more powerful to take focused, sustained action.
2005 New Year’s Eve, Tromso, Norway.
It was the first time that I had ever seen the Aurora Borealis, the Northern Lights. Flickering curtains of dancing light against the dark sky, the beautiful blaze of pale green celestial lights is just like our tumultuous life. We seldom have a clue where life is leading us to, nor do we know the showtime of our life journey’s finale. The present is the only gift we can hold tight. If you can choose to be happy, don’t choose to be sad. Regardless of the problems swirling around you, move through life with grace, warmth, and vigor. Most importantly, stay emotionally elevated.
Feel the living, feel the happiness, and that’s right the meaning of life.
我们唯一能牢牢握在手里的就是此刻;如果你能选择高兴,就一定不要选择悲伤。如我这样的悲观者才能真正快乐地活着。
感受生活,感受 幸福。这就是生的意义。
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